Achieving an orgasm can be elusive for a lot of women. But it can be as simple as time, tenderness, and knowing how to stimulate the sweet spots. For this post, we would examine how to achieve orgasms in women, for women, as well as how to get your woman to orgasm, for men.
Because of how much detail we intend on going into for this topic, we will be splitting it into a three part series over the next couple of days, with the second part shared almost exclusively on our social media handles. So, if you are not following us on social media, this is the time.
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Porn is not real
First thing you need to know about bringing a woman to orgasm, or getting an orgasm if you are a woman, is ignore everything you have ever seen in porn. While pornography has its own place in sexual stimulation and the heightening of pleasure, it is the absolute worst place you can go to learn about sex.
This is because, the actors in pornos portray an exaggerated experience which is completely different from real life. And that is why not every woman will enjoy licking cum.
The key to orgasms during sex is spending more time on foreplay and learning about your partner sexual anatomy, understanding which sexual positions provide the best chance for orgasm.
This post series is not going to tell you a secret method to getting orgasms. If you are here for that, you may as well log out. This post is a guide, to teach you how to go about finding your orgasm.
What does this woman want?
For men, the only person who knows exactly what your partner wants is your partner. And there is only one way to find out. You have to ask. Many women might like a certain technique used, and as many would be completely turned off by that same technique. A past experience may have taught you one or two things, but that training might not be applicable to every woman. The key thing to note here is, every woman has her particular taste in pleasure. So, ask you woman what works for her, and if she knows it, then that’s what you should be doing.
See also: 7 tips for spicing up your sex life
For women, you have got to go deep into yourself (no pun intended) and find out what makes you light up. Understanding your body is the first step to getting orgasms in a woman. One of our readers confided in us once that she was 23 before she even discovered the pleasures of her clit.
Some women do not even know where their g-spot is. Is it a spot somewhere to the left of that cavern inside you that’s so sweet when he strokes against it, tell him when he does it. Tell him to do it again. Do it yourself even. Delve in, explore yourself, explore with your partner, search for the things that give you pleasure and do them again and again. Sex is a beautiful, absolutely pleasurable thing. And when you find that thing that works for you, share it with your partner.
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