We have come to the end of our series on finding her orgasm. We believe that every woman has the ability to enjoy a fulfilling sexual life, filled with orgasmic delights and all you need is to discover it. That is what this series has been, a guide to finding that orgasm. If you are just joining us on this series and you missed the earlier two posts, you can find them here:
How to find her orgasm – Part 1
As a recap, we talked in our earlier two posts about the benefits of foreplay in finding her orgasms. Foreplay is not a stiffnecked affair, there is an emphasis on the word “play” in foreplay that should not be ignored. It is also more than simple touches as mental arousal plays a heavy role in foreplay.
We also spoke about how fake porn is and how taking your lessons from porn is the worst way to find an orgasm. The key to finding her orgasm will always be in conversation. Understanding your partner and knowing how your body works, the location of your clitoris and your g-spot and how that combination works, is necessary to finding how to make it quiver in pleasure.
Today, we will be talking a lot more about that.
First of all, what exactly is the clitoris and g-spot?
Again, there is no sure rule to this, and you have to discover your sweet spot for yourself. However, these are two places on the female body that are very critical to a female orgasm.
This tiny organ contains a high concentration of nerve endings and can be found near the top of the vulva. The clitoris is covered by a little bit of skin called the “clitoral hood,” which keeps it from being stimulated all the time, so you may have to coax the clitoris out by touching or licking it. Once she’s aroused, the hood will draw back and the clitoris will become erect.
This other orgasmic area is located inside the vagina. It’s a bundle of nerve endings about two inches up from the pubic bone on the inner, upper wall of the vagina. To find the G-spot, gently slide your finger inside her vagina with your palm facing up, then curl your finger up.
Now, many women are more stimulated by their clitoris than their G-spot, and for the most part that is because the clitoris is more accessible. Finding the g-spot is not hard, and that’s why we always emphasize exploring. It is simply two inches in, and you may find out after exploring that you experience a more orgasmic pleasure when your g-spot is stimulated over when your clitoris is stimulated.
Focus on FEMALE-FRIENDLY SEXUAL POSITIONS
While masturbation is a sure way to explore your body and discover what makes you tick, pleasure-wise. The best sexual position for an orgasm always depends on the particular partners involved. While a male partner with a smaller penis will be best engaged in a particular position, a partner with a bigger penis may be best engaged in another position. Same applies for a woman with a bigger bum or vice versa. However, you can never go wrong if the sexual position you choose is the one that provides maximum stimulation to the clitoris or G-spot (or both!).
We have collated the top 5 sexual positions for achieving orgasms. These positions include:
Woman on top
Whether cowgirl, reverse cowgirl, pregnancy boosters, this position provides some of the best stimulation of the G-spot, given the angle of the penis, especially if the man’s penis is curved upwards. She also can move her body in a way that stimulates her clitoris.
This position isn’t so great for clitoral stimulation, but provides excellent penetration and stimulation of the G-spot especially if the man is big and long and the woman has a big bum.
The best sexual position for an orgasm always depends on the particular partners involved. While a male partner with a smaller penis will be best engaged in a particular position, a partner with a bigger penis may be best engaged in another position.
Similar to the cowgirl or girl on top position, having your partner sit on your lap allows for both deep penetration and good clitoral stimulation. It also provides plenty of intimacy.
The coital alignment technique
This is done by grinding right up against a girl’s clit during sex, not thrusting in and out but rather remain as deep as possible inside her while maintaining pressure on her clit, grinding upwards and downwards on it. The Kinsey report found that 37% of women who tried the Coital Alignment Technique experienced substantial increases in orgasmic ability.
Edging a girl is the process of bringing a girl/woman close to orgasm, but then reducing the stimulation before climax can occur, so orgasm isn’t reached yet. Then repeating this same process again after a few moments.
Repeating this process two, three, four or more times before eventually continuing, allows her an incredible and powerful orgasm much more than a regular orgasm.
Edging a girl is a fantastic way of making an orgasm intense. It could sound frustrating and requires both restraint and skill understanding but when done correctly can lead to an earth-shattering orgasm.
Have you ever edged a woman before? Have you ever been edged before? Share with us in the comments below.
We hope this series has been a guide and taught you one or two things. Do let us know in our comments sections. In the end, the best position for you and your partner will largely depend on what both of you find out.
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